The call from my sister a couple of year ago, went something like this.  She wanted to know if she could take my son, Jett on vacation to Virginia with her.  Now how is a tired hard working single mom of a 9 year old supposed to respond to that question? After doing back flips down the isle and quickly checking Travelocity I picked up the phone to make sure she hadn’t hung up, but she was on to me.  …